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Seminar 3 SummaryChild-rearing in a risk society |
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Day 1 Adult-child relations and management of risk Ellie Lee thanked the organiser in Aston, Pam Lowe, and the PCS technical support, Samantha Osborne. She also thanked the ESRC for funding our series of seminars, which explore parenting culture: the set of social norms, practices and ideas that inform what parents do. These seminars look not only at what parents do, but what society thinks parents should do. In particular, we are interested in looking at why there is such negativity around what parents do. Distinct to ‘childrearing,’ ‘parenting’ as a term is not only a descriptor, but is generally used in terms of being a social problem; we seek to explore how this has come about. Having looked at the history of parental causality in the first seminar, and the issue of gender and parenting at the second, the third seminar focused on risk. A write up of the sessions held over the day of follows. Session 1 ‘The problem of ‘touch’ and other intergenerational issues’ Heather opened by outlining her research into ‘touch’ amongst children and non-parental adults, showing how this has become a fraught arena for social interaction. For example, teachers today are not able to put plasters on children, but must await the arrival of a parent, or ask children to apply a plaster themselves. Staff in schools and nurseries routinely take steps to make sure that they are not left alone with children, and that any touching (such as when changing a nappy) remains constantly visible to others. In a ‘risk’ society, there is a racheting up of anxiety around child-adult interaction. ‘Licensed to Hug - Adult-child relations and the national vetting scheme’ Jennie outlined three main points from her report ‘Licensed to Hug’, co-authored with Frank Furedi which addressed the National Vetting Scheme. 1. The National Vetting Scheme (NVS) is a political gesture, not a real wish to protect children. Even is the NVS had been in operation at the time of the Soham murders, for example, Huntley would still have got into contact with his victims. Jennie argued that NVS is a ‘fantasy precaution’ of a risk averse society hoping that we can avoid risk entirely. On the surface, the suggested national database will streamline things, on the other hand, it has clear implications for civil liberties. Bristow argues that this puts children at harm, in that adults will not want to take formal authority for children. 2. This scheme therefore puts people off helping out with children: Volunteers get no financial reward from doing what they do – scuritinisation acts as a big ‘keep out’ sign to those who want to help. 3. What this means for society: The argument is that trust between adults and children requires regulation. This has huge implications: children should be able to trust that adults will act with their best interests. This is not a process that can be certified, but an assumed relationship between generations. Any wider social responsibility is destroyed. The role of care becomes limited to parents and those who have been vetted (with the assumption that the scheme might have missed ‘that’ paedophile anyway). ‘Antisocialisation: How intervention undermines individuals and communities' Stuart suggested that it’s not just anti-social behaviour on the part of children, but behaviour in general that is increasingly of interest to policy makers. With the growth of behaviour management in society, spontaneous and intimate relationships between adult and children have been colonised by expertise, he said. ‘Emotional management’ for example, is now central to the educational ethos of schools. Teachers are now behavioural counsellors, rather than those who impart expert knowledge. There are a number of consequences of this: children are less likely to interact with adults who react ‘naturally’ (that is, without cohesive training). Rather relating to adults, children grow up relating to a trained individual (and the accompanying accountability culture). Discussants: Frank Furedi, Professor of Sociology, University of Kent One of the problems with Foucauldian theory and the idea of responsibilisation is that is misses an interesting dynamic: one of parental causality being the flipside to the same coin which brands parents as incapable of parenting without expertise. For Frank, the de-authorisation of adults and more specifically of parents in the family, is a key area of interest: Authority is now rarely associated with anything good. Indeed, the very idea of adult authority is seen as risky – and requiring of regulation. Children today cannot be made to do anything against their will – but how many children, asked Frank, do times-tables spontaneously? – some coercion is always needed. He outlined two specific areas where authority has been taken away from parents: The dialectic of being responsible but being de-authorised calls into question the whole notion of ‘socialisation’ Socialisation is being reversed: it’s something that children now do to parents. Children now educate their parents in e.g. recycling, or how to touch. Children do not represent authority in themselves, of course, but act as conduits for expert knowledge. This disempowers adults, and the notion of adult authority. This is particularly dangerous in the family – since adults increasingly lie about their non-optimal behaviours (such as not breastfeeding, reading, recycling in the prescribed ways). The logic of these papers today, Frank argued, is pushing us towards a discussion of authority, and what the implications of this is in the coming years. Val Gillies, Reader, ESRC Families and Social Capital Research Group, London South Bank University With respect to relationship education or ‘emotional literacy’ in schools, Val argued, this is at heart, a deeply repressive programme which seek to homogenise children’s emotions. There is a chasm between the ideal promoted and the fraught realities of school life. Whilst she is less concerned about how this effects interaction, what she is worried about is what the government has in mind with these schemes: the parents being fined and jailed are almost always the poorest in society. Questions: Responses: • The way we treat children has changed dramatically – children as vulnerable, not resilient. Questions: Concluding thoughts: Session 2 ’Cotton-wool kids’: who’s to blame?’ Helene’s argument, drawing on her book Reclaiming Childhood is that children need unsupervised play, to: test boundaries, experiment, take risks, have arguments and fights and to learn how to resolve conflicts. Helene’s research shows that unsupervised play plays a central role in children’s emotional, social and physical development. Through play, in coming to agreements about rules etc, children start to internalise rules for themselves. Children’s play is both liberating and constraining, as children are free to make new rules, but role playing must be co-operative, so children must be able to demonstrate unprecedented self-control through internalisation. One of the problems today, is that children are not allowed to play on their own as much anymore. This denies children the ability to innovate and learn from risk-taking behaviour. Many adults in turn, do not feel that they have enough authority to discipline children. Yet there is more policing of children today, and teachers step into playground disputes much more quickly than in the past. We talk about ‘cotton wool kids’, yet there has been a recognition that there was a safety over-drive in the 1990s; today so safe and boring that children don’t want to play in play-grounds any more. This phenomenon takes different forms in different countries. In all cases, it’s parents who get the blame for this state of affairs. The Good Childhood Enquiry in 2007 said that children had become hostages to parental fears, and in 2008 in the ICM Play England survey, that parents are spoiling children’s play-time. But it is wrong to blame parents. There has been a break-down in trust amongst adults; parents do not feel they can trust others to help and guide children. Promulgated by state and media: e.g. after James Bulger case – not highlighted that this was a very rare case, but that ‘anyone can snatch your kid’ at any moment. Paranoia and suspicion of other adults, breeds paranoia – this is something all social members will experience. The accountability culture means that the risk of just one child being harmed justifies the presence of measures which effect all children (and adults). All is not lost, however, argued Helene. Not all children internalise these messages in the same way. Some children feel safer with security guards CCTV etc; though others sought out more dangerous places which gave them a place of their own, away from adult supervision and new challenges to face. She concluded with a question: These are all problems we recognise but how do we challenge it? She says, I would find it impossible to challenge this individually, in terms of this culture. We have to do so on a broader cultural level. Discussants: Professor Aline-Wendy Dunlop, Chair of Childhood and Primary Studies, University of Strathclyde Bernard Spiegal, Principal of the not-for-profit PLAYLINK Questions Concluding remarks: Session 3 ‘Safety, Safety, Safety for Small Fry’: The Conjoining of Children and Safety in Commercial Communities of Parenthood This research is part of a larger project around parenting and consumer contexts, in particular, concentrating on children as consumers. Lydia looks at new categories created through consumption: foetuses, babies, toddlers etc, which she argues are part of adult imagination about what children are like. This becomes connected to what it is like to become a new parent. Lydia opened with some theoretical reflections: on childhood and parenthood, childhood risks and safety and contemporary consumer culture with specific reference to public/private and surveillance. The UK baby show is a consumer exhibition targeted at new parents, families and friends. Lydia listed two main reasons she uses it as an interesting ethnographic site: A range of people there; represents a commercial cacophony; also involves online element. Prospective parents come together, creating a commercial club spirit; the show function as an information conduit. There are many complexities around the products on offer to parents, though many focus on safety. She argued that there is a danger of awareness, with product innovation drives inflating anxiety. There has been a shift in descriptions of childhood from a time where children are growing and exploring to one where mothers must constantly monitor to prevent accidents. ‘Dummies and Fairies; Family culture and the question of authority’ We mean different kinds of risks when we talk about childrearing in risk society. We need to look at actors as they go about dealing with these risks. Timo argued that culture itself deals with a lot of these problems, he therefore asked, ‘which problems do cultural phenomena solve for a group, and how’? He used the dummy as a case study for a study of risk: a reflex for sucking is vital, it not only ensures feeding, but soothing and calming. At some point, parents want children to wean off the dummy, as it represents an attachment to babyhood. Psychologists advise mutual approach (rather than going ‘cold turkey’). He notes a growing trend for the ‘dummy fairy’ (amongst German parents, at least) who takes the dummy away and leaves a gift in its place. How can we explain the growth in the dummy fairy? His observations based on interviews with parents and professionals, literature analysis and so forth. The Dummy Fairy can be seen as another character like Father Christmas, the Easter Bunny and so forth. Educational little helpers introduced in late 18th C: bourgeois values externalised. Characterised by colourful images of childhood; a shift in educational values. The fairy has a role in exchange processes: gifts for good behaviour. Child is actively involved in the bargaining. According to the ideology of intensive parenting, those who are good parents are those who act with their children at the centre of their actions. Corresponds with values of knowledge and reflexivity. It is not enough to find a good solution, it must be the best. Different risks need to be calculated against each other: we are in need of specific knowledge because information is not enough. Parents are in a bind re: dummies – comforting for child, but must be weaned off it by 2nd birthday. The dummy fairy represents an optimal solution. The relationship between parents and children left in tact. The fairy is knowledge in action: a product of the reflexive society. The transformation of knowledge into practice. Both parents and children believe in the dummy fairy: parents in her functionality, children in her existence. Power-sharing in action, outsourcing. Parents become moderators of power; when she has paid her visit everyone is happy. Questions: Day Two: Healthcare, Risk and Motherhood Session 4
Sue described her recently completed study of midwives, which included a telephone survey of 110 midwives and interviews with midwives at 3 hospitals. The study was concerned with finding out how midwives gave advice to new mothers about formula feeding, in the context of the Baby-Friendly Initiative, which promotes breast-feeding. Sue found that midwives were reluctant to talk to researchers about formula feeding and many believed that they were not allowed to talk about it to mothers or anyone else. The research found that very little verbal information was given to mothers who intended to formula feed. 64%of midwives gave no information. Although midwives are able to give a government produced leaflet about formula feeding, some did not have these available to them. Others would give leaflets to teenagers but not older mothers. Midwives thought there should be more information. Although formula feeding used to be demonstrated in antenatal classes, this has now declined as a result of the BFI. Group instructions cannot be given, but information can be given to individuals if they ask the midwife. Videos are used occasionally to provide information. More information is provided postnatally than antenatally. 91% of midwives reported being asked by mothers which brand of formula was best for their babies, but most midwives said they did not feel that could recommend one brand over another.
Helen’s presentation began with the contextualising of her finding within a culture which privileges breast-feeding, but where, in practice, most mothers don’t do it, in which choice is generally valued, but where infant-feeding choices are a ‘measure of motherhood’. The ‘moral work’ performed by sanctioned (breastfeeding) and stigmatised (formula-feeding) mothers was revealed through intensive conversation and discursive analysis of video data filmed during mother-midwife appointments. Breastfeeding, provides and untroubled, sanctioned identity for mothers, while those who formula feed have to ‘do discursive work’ to construct a positive maternal identity. Contrasting an interaction between a midwife and a ‘successful’ breastfeeder with that between a midwife and a formula-feeder, Helen drew out how the moral sanctioning of the former was performed through speech, gaze and gesture while the latter exchange was more strained because a ‘deficient identity’ had to be negotiated. Respondents: Professor Elizabeth Murphy, Pro-Vice-Chancellor and Head of the College of Social Science, University of Leicester Rebecca Kukla, Professor of Philosophy and Obstetrics and Gynecology, University of South Florida Discussion Q: Helen Reece suggested that we are actually moving away from a framework of informed choice. Concluding remarks Session 5
Rebecca Kukla made two claims: 1. That intensive parenting has already been extended backwards and 2. That the ‘preconception care’ movement extend this back even further. In the US, healthcare for women is increasingly being incorporated into the reproductive health paradigm. The risk management of potential, future babies has become a rationale for the provision of female healthcare. Rebecca used numerous slides of images from health promotion leaflets and posters of headless pregnant women’s torsos, to illustrate the sidelining of women in favour of the fetus or future child. This is not limited to pre-natal care – primary care for women is being reinterpreted as preconception care. The Centre for Disease Control Guidelines frame women as always potentially on their way to pregnancy. Any medicine can be incorporated into preconception care and this can be extended across the lifespan, even into paediatric care for girls of 9 years old. Talk of ‘cradle to grave’ care extended from before birth sounds positive. Although there may be health benefits to this, there are profound problems for women’s health and respect.
The paper reported on an analysis of Dept of Health/NICE guidelines to women on alcohol and pregnancy. The DoH advice to avoid alcohol if pregnant or trying to conceive seemed to be an unusual move towards recommending abstinence. This runs against evidence-based health advice and also against a more usual British resistance to abstinence. Abstinence calls have not really taken off in the UK, except for smoking. The emphasis on risk-reduction and harm-reduction tends to the nature of British health promotion, accepting uncertainty and managing this. However, risk is rarely objective or purely evidence-based. In Public Health, risk is usually moralised. But, there is no evidence-base for the abstinence advice concerning alcohol and pregnancy and it is unusual for policy to ‘jump over’ the evidence base, other than in the case of smoking. The US dimension – in 1981, an abstinence policy was recommended by the Surgeon General. This indicated a shift towards a medical framing of a previously moral concern. Fetal Alcohol Syndrome is at the centre of this. FAS is a rare condition, but from 1981 onwards, the definition was expanded. We now have Fetal Alcohol Spectrum Disorder which is not a diagnosis, but diffuse set of problems, not necessarily caused by alcoholism but by any and all drinking in pregnancy. FASD has diffuse consequences such as suicide, prison etc. FASD enables alcohol in pregnancy to become a public health problem, although there is no clear relation between policy and the evidence. In Britain, 1995 saw the first official advice to mothers – to limit drinking, not get drunk. This emphasised FAS, not FASD. There is a shift from uncertainty to abstinence advocacy in 2007 with a DH statement. This cited as evidence of harm, a statistic from NoFAS (a campaign to raise awareness of FAS and FASD) that 6000 children a year were being born with FASD, but this was based on estimates or a ‘guesstimate’. There are problems with this figure: 2% of all births are affected by birth defects. The 6000 would constitute half of these, clearly unlikely, and yet the DH rely on this figure. The rationale is that it is easier to say abstinence as it is more straightforward. The 2008 NICE guideline claims a possible association between alcohol and miscarriage, but moderate benefits to moderate drinking. The risk-averse interpretation of their own evidence seems to have won out, jumping to abstinence during pregnancy and pre-conception. Circumventing the uncertainty associated with the evidence, making the jump from risk to harm. This is a change in the meaning of risk: The ‘Rumsfeldian approach’ – of ‘unknown unknowns’. The unknown becomes presumed to be harmful, circumventing the complexity of uncertain knowledge, like the precautionary principle. Health advice becomes lifestyle rules, a question of ‘doing the right thing’, self-monitoring. Choice becomes questionable and accountability is redefined as being to other people. This is an expansive dynamic – as Rebecca described, we are all pregnant now. DH advice extends to women planning to conceive. The BMA has adopted US advice. Fathers and prospective fathers are also advised to abstain ‘supportively’. There are also calls to educate children about FASD. Discussants: Emily Jackson, Professor of Medical Law, London School of Economics Hauke Reisch, Winton Programme for the Public Understanding of Risk, University of Cambridge. Colin Gavaghan, Lecturer in Law, University of Glasgow |
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